Thursday, January 12, 2012

I am listening to "Rihanna - We Found Love" while typing this entry.

Instrumental, and no-vocal version.

And it got me thinking that when you found love, you cherish it. One thing for sure, don't force it and let it come organic-ly.

I mean it's been a hell of 2 years, at least I am learning something and the statement above is so damn true base on my experience.

Today I was made realized by a very close friend of mine that I tend to over analyse things in whatever situation that I am in, most severely especially when it comes to love. At the end of the day, the other half won't really know how you feel inside except you yourself.

You can go on interpret all the signs, the replies and so on. But to be on the safe side and to ensure that you won't be disappointed later on, always have an equal to sites of evaluation to whatever conclusions that you are making.

Well, sometimes I assume the worst. Like why there's no reply from him, why he replied in this manner and tone and then I got all sad and lonely again.

Because at the end of the day, who are you really hurting ?

You or him.

9 comments:

ooi2009 said...

babi , tak nak jawab my previous comment

akaMike said...

CX, i like your reflection - the last part:

"Because at the end of the day, who are you really hurting? You or him".

soul232 said...

most of time, i believe it will be our own self

Danny said...

hmm ... dunno what to say .. just wish u sometimes won't look at something too seriously :)

two horns child said...

OMG!!! What u just posted is what just happened to me today. (except the song) and i would be the close friend. If i didn't look at the time of your post i would really suspect you are my friend. It was the exact same topic...discussed... Btw...Xing...how long have you known this guy? Did you intro this guy in ur blog before that i have missed?

justin k said...

*hugs*

Ev. C said...

Hmm yup I don't think one can ever find love. Love finds you. =)

ooi2009 said...

u have to look at inner than outer ....than u get it

Chen Xing said...

@akaMike: The feeling you feel inside, won't be the same as what you have told him.

Sigh...

@soul232: That's what I've been thinking as well.

@Danny: But then, if not serious, then I am afraid that I might not be able to make the right decision.

@two horns child: I would say that the's the new 2012 guy as I've just got to know him this year.

:)

@justin k: Thanks.

@Ev. C: So, I grab it while it's in front of me ?

@ooi2009: I know. But sometimes it's hard to understand him.

:(