Two souls meeting. Never really know when they will be uniting. It's not easy as sometimes, the constant search for a guy to date can be a very tough moment to go through.
Do you do it for the sake of getting the much needed experience ? Do you engage a guy because you really want to be with him ? Or do you just do it, for the sake of following the trending behaviour the circle projects ?
Knowing that it's nothing more than just a
Keep the duration of the first date sweetly short ? Prepare in advance in terms of topics to be talked about or go with the flow, and respond accordingly to the situation ? Dress neatly, and be the best of your personality ?
As a best practice, I would prepare to have a short and a very simple date with the objective of finding the chemistry between me and the guy.
So, a perfect meal for two. Munch your way to the stomach while attempting to know the guy a little bit more. What if you are not impressed when you look at him in real life for the first time ? Will the tone which ideally set for the date change ?
Plainly just a meeting, perhaps a cuppa will do. Casual chilling moment. Just hanging out sipping coffee or tea without any pressure.
Care to pour some thoughts ?
8 comments:
so are u dating that guy?
err... u think too much? lol ;p
what if you meet up and you realize you are totally uncomfortable with him in real life?
Just choose a neutral environment, so even though it is a date, you can play it down and make it appear like a meet.
for me , the guy must be NOT FAT , and NOT FAB , THEN IF HE IS NORMAL LOOKING , I WOULD HOOK UP WITH HIM LAHHH
You feel comfortable with short sessions then keep it short then. Usually time varies as it goes on. like or not like , that's the point of meeting up besides usually we look for inner qualities. Give each other a chance and see how it flows. Quit worrying kay? You'll be fine. Lots of lucks!!
Hope ur date went well. Is everything okay?
@Takashi: No. I am not.
@Danny: Well, sometimes I just got to prepare. Analyse things and see how it will turn out.
@Klex: Then I think by all means, cut the outing as short as possible and avoid meeting him again.
:(
@chaiminhuei: True. Got to be extremely cautious when picking the time, venue & the activity.
@ooi2009: Sigh, too bad I am the FAB one. Supposed can't hook up with you already.
:(
@two horns child: Lol. I didn't go out on a date. In fact was packed with wedding dinner to attend.
Hehe..
Anyway, I'll keep in mind your advice on this.
:)
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