Thursday, September 8, 2011

The rat race to love. Everyone is doing it, and everyone is in it to win it.

Two souls meeting. Never really know when they will be uniting. It's not easy as sometimes, the constant search for a guy to date can be a very tough moment to go through.

Do you do it for the sake of getting the much needed experience ? Do you engage a guy because you really want to be with him ? Or do you just do it, for the sake of following the trending behaviour the circle projects ?

Knowing that it's nothing more than just a date first date, how do you go about to plan it well ?

Keep the duration of the first date sweetly short ? Prepare in advance in terms of topics to be talked about or go with the flow, and respond accordingly to the situation ? Dress neatly, and be the best of your personality ?

As a best practice, I would prepare to have a short and a very simple date with the objective of finding the chemistry between me and the guy.


So, a perfect meal for two. Munch your way to the stomach while attempting to know the guy a little bit more. What if you are not impressed when you look at him in real life for the first time ? Will the tone which ideally set for the date change ?


Plainly just a meeting, perhaps a cuppa will do. Casual chilling moment. Just hanging out sipping coffee or tea without any pressure.

Care to pour some thoughts ?

8 comments:

Takashi said...

so are u dating that guy?

Danny said...

err... u think too much? lol ;p

Klex said...

what if you meet up and you realize you are totally uncomfortable with him in real life?

chaiminhuei said...

Just choose a neutral environment, so even though it is a date, you can play it down and make it appear like a meet.

ooi2009 said...

for me , the guy must be NOT FAT , and NOT FAB , THEN IF HE IS NORMAL LOOKING , I WOULD HOOK UP WITH HIM LAHHH

two horns child said...

You feel comfortable with short sessions then keep it short then. Usually time varies as it goes on. like or not like , that's the point of meeting up besides usually we look for inner qualities. Give each other a chance and see how it flows. Quit worrying kay? You'll be fine. Lots of lucks!!

two horns child said...

Hope ur date went well. Is everything okay?

Chen Xing said...

@Takashi: No. I am not.

@Danny: Well, sometimes I just got to prepare. Analyse things and see how it will turn out.

@Klex: Then I think by all means, cut the outing as short as possible and avoid meeting him again.

:(

@chaiminhuei: True. Got to be extremely cautious when picking the time, venue & the activity.

@ooi2009: Sigh, too bad I am the FAB one. Supposed can't hook up with you already.

:(

@two horns child: Lol. I didn't go out on a date. In fact was packed with wedding dinner to attend.

Hehe..

Anyway, I'll keep in mind your advice on this.

:)