Just like love/relationship.
The more you put yourself out there to go searching for it, the more disappointed you will get when the outcome is not what you have wanted.
At the end of the day, you blame yourself until you are tired of, and then you started blaming him for all of the problems occurred.
So, given a choice, would you still continue the quest on your own till you find the perfect one or you will actually take into consideration dating a friend's friend ?
It's obviously a catalogue of men to choose from. All from the different cliques, and pretty sure that there will be one or two guy that will get click with us.
Take the chance, break the ego and step out of the comfort zone ?
I know it's just like another typical match-making process, but then what if that guy actually used to like your friend in the first place first ?
Oh my, do we accept the kind deed from our dear friend ?