The only way for us to let go of memories, in relating to relationship or love or something close to it, is to:
- Delete all sms-es or text messages sent by him to you. With that, we will not look at the messages over and over again which is not really helping us to move on as we are constantly being reminded of the connections we used to have. All the sweet moments that won't last forever.
- Delete his profile from all your social networking sites. Hard to do, at least it will cut off the most indirect communication we had with him. Won't be able to know his latest status, his latest where about, what he is up to or simply how he looks like now with the latest photo upload.
- Delete his phone number from your phone. So that we will not have the urge to call or send him text messages.
Delete I would say, erase this memory off my life.
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true.. i did that too.. but his number was in my mind.. how i delete from my phone pun its still there.. gosh..
Then how? Just leave it?
delete.. it will be gone after a year..
You're right... :(
I still have his messages, number.. it lingers.
Gotta delete him away.
@Jon_C: How long you guys were together?
@tuls: Not easy....a lillte reluctant to do it...
@Jon ~ delete !!
@chen ~ haha.. its your own decision anyway.. anyone can say anything to you and you can nod your head for as many times as you want, but in the end youre the one whose gonna push the button to delete :) if you need time then ok lor.. but if too long then you'll be drained till theres nothing left and when you finally snap out of it, its too late and you will regret asking yourself why are you so stupid wasting your time this this taht taht etc.. hahaha.. ... or maybe its just me.. hm..
@tuls: Why are you so damn right. That's what happening to me now. It's freaking irritating. Let alone, see him every now and then. Say wanna let go, wanna move on. It's just hard. :( or maybe, i'm just weak...
@chenxing: not long. about half a year.. and yours?
mine i met him only 5 times over a period of 9 months.. thats just so pathetic...
@Jon C: Got to know him for around 4 months, then I think I should not force it. Hence, the letting go...
Well, it's a worth while experience. Should be thanking him as now I am a stronger person now.
@chenxing Yeah. Guess I've also learned from this afterall. That everything happens for a reason. Now it's just moving on, right?
Hope you are too??
@tuls and then what? guess that's not a problem anymore
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