Monday, August 8, 2011

If you are constantly in search for ideas and sparks to start up a topic of conversation, then I would say that you are just forcing yourself too much.

This, especially when it comes to communicating with another person (whom you like and still secretly liking him) can only reveal one thing: you two have nothing in common.

Deny all you want, but then when it's a planned conversation and it's being moderated by non-other than you, the ultimate goal is to hear what you want to hear.

Sometimes, when the answer is so obvious that it's not in favour to you, you will still tend to bombard the dialogue box with other replies in hope of trying to ignore the clear-cut answers replied by the other party.

Perhaps, you are pushing yourself to the limit exploring your capability without realizing that at the same time you are testing the other guy's patience by having no intention of provoking him in mind.


He has reached his limits.

Should I be embarrassed for the constant disturbance ? Or should I be feeling guilty ? Do not disturb then, or leave it as it is ?

So tell me, what's a good conversation all about ?

10 comments:

Danny said...

err.. just say things at the right time? but i oso dunno when is the right time ;p
good luck :))

two horns child said...

I think i know what you meant. I do get this from one of my friend. It feels so shitty sometimes and sometimes they will "try" to talk till they don't even realize they are contrasting their believes. For what? So that i will think that you are special? To prove what? It's really very tiring!!

J-boy said...

Ugh I hate those awkward moments where both parties don't really have anything to say, and for a few seconds it is silent.. then someone ends up bringing up some silly topic that neither person really cares about!

I hate socializing!! :P

two horns child said...

Hi Chen, Can i get ur permission to publish this phrase in my blog?

"Perhaps, you are pushing yourself to the limit exploring your capability without realizing that at the same time you are testing the other guy's patience by having no intention of provoking him in mind."

Will really appreciate it!!
Cheers...

Chen Xing said...

@Danny: That's the thing, finding the right time is just so hard...

:(

@two horns child: Perhaps, to just say it right to the person's face would be better ?

Sure, go ahead...honoured that you find the phrase interesting.

:)

@J-boy: But then again, in order to make it in the society we got no choice but to socialize.

:)

two horns child said...

Ahh... thank you. i think when i'm at my limits...i'll kick his face but it's a complicated relationship. Not love but friendship. Mostly complicatedly good than bad. :) Once again thanks for ur approval. Thanks a million.

Chen Xing said...

@two horns child: Not a problem.

Didn't know what happened, but then the phrase by me seems to be piercing right through your heart.

Care to share ?

two horns child said...

Hahah....it's not my heart but i meant my brain. I have been wanting to say this "problem" i have but i never seem to be able to put it in words. So your phrase was spot on! It felt good man!!!!

savante said...

Sometimes it can be nice to be quiet together :)

Chen Xing said...

@two horns child: I see. Glad that the "stress" is off the mind.

@savante: Point taken. But then again, how long do we stay quiet ?