As love will only come to those who deserve it, it will choose the most perfect man for the most deserving soul. Giving both of them, a chance for a relationship to flourish till eternity.
A young bottom gay guy, will long for a mature and slightly older top guy to be his soul mate. Getting comfortable with the security provided by the other half. And as for a mature top gay guy, he would want to care for a younger bottom in return for the companionship and loving care. Give and take, when it comes to love.
Match made in heaven, they said and age is just a number.
Call me traditionalist. You may agree disagree but somehow, I conform to the above.
It's just a little off for me to see that a couple, whose the top is few years younger than the bottom being in a relationship.
Can love still be excited ?
How many years apart will be deemed as the ideal age ?
Will you still take a chance on it then ?
9 comments:
I might take a chance.. Will you?
Versatile how?
I agree with you.
I would never date someone younger than me... because the difference in maturity is striking.. I know that is generalizing, but it's amazing what a few additional years can change a person's character and way of thinking..
I'm attracted to the wisdom that comes with age, but of course not someone too much older than me hahaha.. coz then I would be too immature for him XD
The thing about looking for someone near your age is not about physical compatibility or looks or wealth. I think it's more to similarity in way of thinking as it enables the couple to bond more readily :)
agree with you too on the fact that bottom guys seek older guys to feel more secure..
but too bad, some top nowadays are the one that need to feel secure
leong leong, you sot jor arr? hahahahaha.. you of all people should know that love is blonde! ei.. shit.. as in love is blinde! ei, BLIND!! shit what am i typing.. hahahaha.. so what if my top is younger than me? as long as i love him and his maturity matches his person then can jor lor!! :) once there is love then there wont be any problem jor! :)
@Klex: It depends on the age gap. Generally, I will go for older guys.
But then again, older guys would mean that they are wiser and slightly "in-control" of the relationship.
@chaiminhuei: I am actually alright if one of them is versatile.
:)
@J-boy: Yup. Let us not give up yet, one day he will come.
@kiddystick: Hahahah andlike they said, there are just more bottoms than tops in the country.
@tuls: I know. It's just a matter of preference. If it does come unexpectedly, then I will have no choice but to accept the fate.
1.5 years the difference between me and my bf.. He has his moods and I learnt to live around it
@Takashi: Ok. Who is the younger one ?
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