Sunday, June 5, 2011

If you are single and yet slightly a little desperate, fret no more. Love comes to those who needed it and when it comes, it will be assured that happiness will surely tag along filling up the loneliness in the empty heart.

As love will only come to those who deserve it, it will choose the most perfect man for the most deserving soul. Giving both of them, a chance for a relationship to flourish till eternity.

A young bottom gay guy, will long for a mature and slightly older top guy to be his soul mate. Getting comfortable with the security provided by the other half. And as for a mature top gay guy, he would want to care for a younger bottom in return for the companionship and loving care. Give and take, when it comes to love.

Match made in heaven, they said and age is just a number.

Call me traditionalist. You may agree disagree but somehow, I conform to the above.


It's just a little off for me to see that a couple, whose the top is few years younger than the bottom being in a relationship. I am not being jealous. Just trying to figure out, who is providing to who ? Or that the top is just clinging on to the bottom for something else rather than an honest relationship ?

Can love still be excited ?

How many years apart will be deemed as the ideal age ?

Will you still take a chance on it then ?

9 comments:

Klex said...

I might take a chance.. Will you?

chaiminhuei said...

Versatile how?

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J-boy said...

I agree with you.
I would never date someone younger than me... because the difference in maturity is striking.. I know that is generalizing, but it's amazing what a few additional years can change a person's character and way of thinking..

I'm attracted to the wisdom that comes with age, but of course not someone too much older than me hahaha.. coz then I would be too immature for him XD

The thing about looking for someone near your age is not about physical compatibility or looks or wealth. I think it's more to similarity in way of thinking as it enables the couple to bond more readily :)

kiddystick said...

agree with you too on the fact that bottom guys seek older guys to feel more secure..
but too bad, some top nowadays are the one that need to feel secure

tuls said...

leong leong, you sot jor arr? hahahahaha.. you of all people should know that love is blonde! ei.. shit.. as in love is blinde! ei, BLIND!! shit what am i typing.. hahahaha.. so what if my top is younger than me? as long as i love him and his maturity matches his person then can jor lor!! :) once there is love then there wont be any problem jor! :)

Chen Xing said...

@Klex: It depends on the age gap. Generally, I will go for older guys.

But then again, older guys would mean that they are wiser and slightly "in-control" of the relationship.

@chaiminhuei: I am actually alright if one of them is versatile.

:)

@J-boy: Yup. Let us not give up yet, one day he will come.

@kiddystick: Hahahah andlike they said, there are just more bottoms than tops in the country.

@tuls: I know. It's just a matter of preference. If it does come unexpectedly, then I will have no choice but to accept the fate.

Takashi said...

1.5 years the difference between me and my bf.. He has his moods and I learnt to live around it

Chen Xing said...

@Takashi: Ok. Who is the younger one ?