I am back.
After a few days of celebrating the festive moment with my family, I found myself to be indulging in good food, walked plenty of miles while accompanying sis and mom for shopping and a lot more happier right now. Can just smile and be thankful as I spent the past few days with my mom and my sis, as well as my little nephew. Couldn't wish for a better Christmas present, as the best gift after all is just to have quality time with family.
So running a quick check on the date, it's 28th of December 2010. Couple more of days, we'll be bidding goodbye to 2010. I am not really in the muse to write about resolutions and will probably get to that when the date draws closer. Pretty sure that most of you peeps out there already have in mind on how to end the year with a bang.
As for now, let me gauge on something which has been kind of playing around in my head. Something which I have been observing for sometime now and still have yet to crack the logic.
Yup, it's non other than the position or the role in the rainbow society. I know this "top or bottom" topic has been discussed before, but then how can we, from a third person point of view pin-pointing out on a couple to who is the top and who is the bottom. Care to share any tips ?
I always have this well-crafted imagination on how a top should carry himself. He must be tougher, looks mature, protective, macho, taller and have all the "yang" energy surrounding him. Whereas for a bottom, he is usually a little more passive, caring, pays a lot of attention to small little details, intelligent, likes to be pampered, loves the attention a top gives to him and breathe in the "yin" aura. So tell me, how cliche can those labels be ?
What about the term "Power Bottom" or the idea that when you walk into a gym's locker room the most well-build guy turns out to be a bottom ? Or picture this scenario, a younger boy topping an older man ? I am having a hard time figuring out the position of this one guy whom I used to love, though we slept together, I don't think so I can deduce on the role he is most comfortable in basing on that one magical night. How ? Break the rules and just live the gay lifestyle to your liking, and not let labels define the boundary ?
Hmm...serious thinking needed.
So the next time when you are in the elevator, look around and if you spot a hot guy, do ask yourself this: "Going up or going down ?"