Wednesday, May 25, 2011

You said you like him.

I believe you.

You said you love him.

I trust you.

But when you told me that you have only known him for months and he is everything to you in life till you would leave behind what you have right now just to be with him, I said: You better think thrice.

A strong lustful affection towards someone is something that we can't control. Feelings will keep on playing around in our head, mentally deciding on either this or that. Sucks at times, but when feelings crosses path with love, mix-emotions are being unleashed.


Have you professed your love to him more than once? Have you tried going out on more than three times of date with him ? Have you really known him very well ? or Have you gotten the "I Heart You Too" signal from him ?

If the answer is no, then I would say it's all just merely infatuation.

It comes and go.

Are you sure ? Then, do allow me to add on another question to determine once and for all.

Have you had sex with him before ?

No.

Oh no ! That's love, but not the kind of love that will turn into a beautiful relationship.

12 comments:

chaiminhuei said...

True much, well written.

ooi2009 said...

sometimes , sex can be really powerful .Lust can make or break a relationship. when i see all u bloggers , sometimes i wonder if all of u are kept in a room , will u guys eventually have sex with all the kicking hormones

Chen Xing said...

@chaiminhuei: Yup. At least from what I observing.

:)

@ooi2009: It depends...

Danny said...

hmm .. sounds like a one way love huh? very young person ehh?

J-boy said...

The title of this post reminds me of this song:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tzf0Qgb_eGY

;)

Chen Xing said...

@Danny. Yup. Not really that young...

@J-boy: Ooo..Didn;t know that she covered this song before...

ooi2009 said...

im not kidding , sex is powerful , it controls you

Chen Xing said...

@ooi2009: And I thought it's the other way round, as in "you control sex" ?

alvin_t said...

not everything bout love begins with sex .. sex is jus a part of it .. it does not revolves around sex ...

Chen Xing said...

@alvin_t: I got to say that true enough it's not all about sex. But then, when it comes to the rainbow world of relationship, I got confuse.

Perhaps, I am blinded by it so much till I believe that it's so possible after that session.

Sigh...

Just B3cks said...

Typical puppy love.Wwhen they are young they dont think far. Illusion between love, lust, happiness and fantasies. That kid will learn his lesson later :D

Chen Xing said...

@Just B3cks: Not really puppy love. It's just that someone is longing to be loved badly.

Just like me...hehehe.

Anyway, thanks for dropping by my blog.

:)